Outside, wraiths of mist were sliding along the Biobio river earlier, occasionally making forays out across the wide band of treed floodplain and sliding into the city streets, then retreating again to the river. In the west, a bank of fog still hangs over the ocean. From where I sit, I can look out across the little lake (known as Laguna Grande), across the tan grass of the winter wetlands, the row of leafless trees backed by a further row of evergreens, across the jumbled band of housing of the Lomus Colorado district, and out to the ocean, stretching into the horizon behind it's thin veil.
People seem to have a great love for dogs here. There is a row of houses in a street below our apartment in which quite a large number of dogs reside. These particular dogs are of an extraordinarily tireless breed and appear to be capable of barking continuously without any need for sleeping or eating. They carry on a loud and lively conversation on a more or less constant basis. Thankfully, they are far enough away that their voices blend somewhat with the more soothing rumble and hum of the city and one can almost not notice them after a while.
Life, as I have said to a few people lately, is life wherever one goes. People are people and it doesn't really matter in what city or country or on what continent or in what language. We eat and sleep, have work and relationships and struggles and in the end it doesn't really matter a great deal where we are doing it. However, there are different rhythms to different places, and while the instruments may be mostly the same, the music can still be somewhat different.
A few impressions so far:
People work harder here, I think. The standard work day is nine to six rather than nine to five and staying late at the office after work is quite common. This translates into a need to push other activities later into the evening and so dinner is usually at 8 or 9 rather than 6 or 7, or sometimes 5, like in Canada. Parties and gatherings often go late into the night and then later into the early morning hours. People seem to be able to do this and then still get up and go to work in the morning. However, naps are a bit more common when there is an opportunity.
There is a more stark line between those who have and those who don't and poverty is more evident. Despite this, Chile is a very developed and orderly sort of country.
I've been a bit frustrated with grocery shopping. They don't have the idea of buying things in large quantities here and so you have to buy 1 kg of flower, or 100 gm of quinoa. Everything comes in small sizes, and I find myself craving a trip to Costco. I'm a bit ashamed of this... :-)
People, though, are friendly and kind. My few forays into the world without Grace present to translate and communicate have met with enthusiastic support despite my lack of language ability, and some fun conversations in Spanglish with taxi drivers and store clerks.
There are fences everywhere, often topped with sharp objects or pointed posts or razor wire and this gives the impression that it's not completely safe. However, I have not ever felt threatened or worried, in any of the places I have visited in Chile, and I have found the people to always be honest, helpful and kind.
Places and events
Our first dinner at home, after I arrived. Married life begins (for real, now that we actually are living together) :-)
a beautiful present from Grace - a hand made woolen poncho, made by a Mapuche woman that Grace knows:
Grace's son and daughter, Andres and Francisca, were here for a four day weekend these past four days. While they were here we did a day trip up the coast to the north, driving from Concepcion to Cobquecura. The trip is about an hour and a half, generally, but we arrived at Quirihue just as a big bike race was starting. It was fun to see several hundred racers zoom by, but also a bit slow having to follow them all the way to Cobquecura. We therefore decided to take a "shortcut" and took a back road instead.
Grace and I are quite fond of shortcuts actually. We take them quite often and always find that they take longer than intended, are rougher and muddier than intended and are also much more interesting and at times beautiful than expected. This was the case again and so we had quite an interesting journey along the edge of the Itata river and then the ocean, on a narrow and winding road with only an occasional vehicle appearing around a blind corner and keeping the driving interesting.
Unfortunately, I didn't take many pictures. Here are two though, of one of our stopping points along the way:
and the restaurant - La Esquina - in Cobquecura. Good food!
The fish is merluza, a very tasty fish somewhat like cod but less grainy and better tasting:
Papas salteadas - fried potatoes, but better. An interesting note is that one of the many disputes about origins of things between Peru and Chile is the dispute about the origin of the potato. Chile says that potatoes originated in Chile, on the island of Chiloe. Peru says that potatoes came originally from Peru. Another dispute is about the origin of the rather delicious drink - the pisco sour, and more importantly pisco in general. Pisco is a very strong distilled alcohol made from grapes.
We also visited, on another day, Talcahuano and the village of Tumbes. It is a small fishing village about half an hour from where we live.
Talcahuano is the home of a ship called the Huascar which is the result of a somewhat more serious dispute between Peru and Chile in 1870. It is a steam ship, purchased from England by Peru and eventually captured by Chile in a series of heroic battles still talked about. We were unfortunately not able to visit it, however, as we forgot our ID and it is in a navy facility that doesn't have a sense of flexibility about procedures.
The Huascar
Talcahuano, waterside
Sidewalk sales
waterfront
and Tumbes. Dry dock...
Lots of seafood
Piures and machas.
and boats from which to catch it
This pelican seemed very happy with its perch in the boat:
This one doesn't float very well:
And lunch in the famous "a la pobre" (of the poor) style, which means you get french fries and a fried egg (or two) with it. Portions are usually pretty big. The fish here is reineta, another of the locally caught species. It tends to fall apart more easily than merluza and so is generally cooked in a batter. Grace and I generally by one plate and share it and are quite happily full. The picture also shows a mostly gone, but very tasty, pisco sour.
and finally, not to leave out the cultural experience, we were able to meet with Sergio Jarlaz. He was the winner of the Chilean "X factor" - a Chilean singing competition program, in 2011, and he was also a student of Grace's mother for quite a few years. He will be singing in an opera (Lucia de Lammermoor) in Concepcion at the end of the month and has invited us, along with Grace's mother to attend. He's a very nice person. :-)
So, though quite a lot more has happened and there could be more to say, I will end with this for now. Until the next time - love from down here in the southern hemisphere... :-)


























Good morning, Todd and Grace, what a lovely blog. It sounds like you too are having a great time. Being with the one you love is the best thing ever. You in Chile and me in Williams Lake (I think we have way more of an military presence) we feel so grateful to have moved into our house (a month late due to the fires). I am so happy for you both; Grace, you have a beautiful country.
ReplyDeleteThank you Lorrie Ann. I'm glad that you have moved in and are feeling settled finally. It's been quite a hectic summer with all of the fires and smoke there! Lots of love to you both and many blessings in your new life and jobs and home!
DeleteThanks Todd, I just saw your reply. :) School has started for most but some are still on evacuation alert. We are loving it here and your database was a hit with my fellow counsellors. Hugs to you and Grace :)
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DeleteBuenos Dias Todd and Grace, how lovely to learn a little about your experiences together in your new life in beautiful Chili 😊 I so enjoyed seeing the photos especially of all the delicious looking foods yum and loved the smiling mandarin overlooking your first dinner together!😄 💕 I look forward to getting to know and see more of your new journey! Thx for sharing and much love to you both 💜
ReplyDeleteBuenas dias a ti tambien Ing! (My Spanish is coming along rather slowly. Hopefully I got that all right...) :-) Great to hear from you - I'm looking forward to hearing about your adventures and insights this year as well!
DeleteAs I reflect on our lives, and think about all the strange parallels we have had, I hope that for both of us, the calm, wonderful and consistent for the next many, many years. I enjoyed reading your post. May the adventures continue, my dear friend!
ReplyDeleteThank you Randy. I am in strong support of those hopes - for us both! :-) Lots of love to you both there, and many happy adventures!
DeleteSo beautiful! Thank you for sharing your journey❤
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